When you searched on google "what is love?" you'll find one of korean girlband video clip show up with their song "what is love?" hahaha
but, what is love ? literally.
a force of nature? However much we may want to, we can not command, demand, or take away love, any more than we can command the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go according to our whims.
We may have some limited ability to change the weather, but we do so at the risk of upsetting an ecological balance we don't fully understand. Similarly, we can stage a seduction or mount a courtship, but the result is more likely to be infatuation, or two illusions dancing together, than love.
Love is bigger than you are. You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself. You can choose to surrender to love or not, but in the end, love strikes like lightning: unpredictable and irrefutable. You can even find yourself loving people you don't like at all. Love does not come with conditions, stipulations, addenda, or codes. Like the sun, love radiates independently of our fears and desires.
Whenever i find my self broken hearted, I always try to learn "love" itself, to understand
and after i read it i kinda understand and try to accept the feeling of rejection that happened to me, because someone i liked didn't like me back, or my relationship doesn't work according to what i expected.
but again, love is not always about happy, together etc something nice.
but love is a feeling, whether is good or not, you have to accept it.
