-After you

So here is the thing about being involved in a catastrophic, life-changing event. you think it's just the catastrophic life-changing event that you're going to have to deal with: the flashback, the sleepless nights, the endless running over events in your head, asking yourself if you had done the right thing, said the things you should have said, whether you could have changed things, had you done it even a degree differently.

-After you